When Livestock Die Or Have To Be Destroyed

The bond between owners and animals kept for farming is different to the bond people form with household pets. However, there is often a deep emotional investment for the owners of livestock. Grief and loss may be experienced whether single animals or large numbers of animals die, either of natural causes or because they must be destroyed.

There are many reasons farm animals may die or need to be put down: after an outbreak of disease, as a result of drought, after they have been injured in an accident or after a fire. The emotional reactions experienced when livestock have to be killed can be related to many factors, such as an economic loss, a sense of failure, or the dilemma of having to decide if and when to put animals down.

Where possible, farmers may find it helpful for neighbours or others not affected to put the animals down for them. The need to cull healthy animals to stop or prevent an epidemic can be particularly devastating. There can be feelings of anger towards authorities who mandate such decisions, and guilt for having animals that may infect other properties.

The destruction of farm animals can result in financial security, loss of livelihoods or even the loss of a farm. Reactions to any of these events can evoke feelings of guilt, shame, helplessness, anger, grief, and failure. These emotional reactions are common.

Some people who have to put down their animals may experience symptoms of post-traumatic stress. They may have nightmares about what has happened, feel uncontrollable anger, and feel that they re-experience the traumatic event when they see physical reminders.

For some, this loss may be so overwhelming they may have thoughts of suicide. If you think this is happening to you or someone you know, it is important you seek help from your general practitioner.

Some Strategies That Can Help

Don’t be afraid to ask for help if you feel you need it. It is better to deal with your painful memories as soon as you can.

Releasing pent-up emotions is far healthier than holding them in. If you are feeling guilty, talk about it, write it down, share it with a trusted friend – try to express it in some way.

As a livestock owner your days were probably very busy – there was always a reason to get up in the morning. It may help to find a new type of structure in your life. Setting daily goals can assist you in making sure that your days have a purpose.

Above all, remember that grieving is an important part of healing the sense of loss. Be patient with yourself.